In this post we explore and discuss an individuals unusual dream. Rationalising dreams means we will break down the dream into components to gain a understanding of why this dream has occured.
In this dream the dreamer is driving in the country side to visit a friend and sees a small field of haystacks in mid-summer. Next the dreamer is walking down the steps of a country mansion with the friend, heading towards the parkland. Then the dreamer notices Prince William and Kate in the parkland surrounded by lots of people and sees the friend amongst them. When the dreamer looks next to themselves the friend has disappeared and they are on the steps alone. Then the dreamer looks back towards the parkland and sees that there is nothing there and they are completely alone in a large green field surrounded by giant haystacks, the mansion having disappeared and wakes up feeling scared and overwhelmed.
When asked what the dreamer had been doing recently in their life, where they had been and who they had seen and spoken to recently and about what, the dreamer came back with this information.
The dreamer had been to visit the friend in the dream about four days earlier. The friend lives in a village in Oxfordshire and they had taken a picnic with them to Blenheim Park for an afternoon out. They talked about having watched the wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton three months earlier in April and how beautiful they thought the ceremony had been.
Now the disjointed snapshots made sense, however where did the haystacks come into it? When asked, the dreamer came back with this.
The dreamer whilst driving in the countryside towards the friend’s house, had noticed some haystacks in a small field.
Why were they a threat?
When asked why haystacks should pose a threat, the dreamer said that the only circumstances they could relate to was as a child. At about the age of five or six, the dreamer had been playing hide and seek in a field of haystacks with brothers and cousins. They used the haystacks to hide in. The dreamer spent quite some time in the haystack before hearing angry shouting. Becoming alarmed at this and moving out of the haystack, the whole mound of hay collapsed onto this child. The dreamer stood up only to see the others running away in the distance and so also started to run.
Another frightening aspect was that the farmer who gave chase, was closest to her and was shouting that he knew who the kids were and was going to tell the parents. Those parents would have to pay for the damage and that the children would be in serious trouble with the police.
The dreamer had forgotten this childhood experience and now the haystack part of the dream made sense. The dreamer went on to add that as a recently separated person, there were feelings of abandonment when the children spent weekends with the ex-partner. Despite making an effort to rekindle old friendships they were fearful of what the future may hold and felt the time had come to make new friends.
Our next discussion in the dream series will explore our dream and waking state. There will be comparisons made for us to better understand them.